React to My Past Overreaction over Seller's Threat

The other night, I was reliving the moment when I felt "threatened" by a random Lazada seller that I resort to multiple ways to try to bring them down.

To set the scene, I have actually dug back up my previous post where I posted the incident on my Facebook feed:

Back to now, my reaction seems a little bit... exaggerated and too-over.

HAHA.

Like I was seriously out of emotional control, and most importantly, my friend reminded me how "beyond" I had done back then just to get back to that seller.

1. I reported to the platform's customer service and made sure they understand loud and clear how this seller's response was out of depth and downright disrespectful.

2. I almost reported this incident to the police station, which now I find it ridiculously funny and nonsense. Looking back, the seller did refund me the money but I personally felt violated hence the "attempted revenge".

3. But, I DID report this incident to the related authority. Something about the consumer's right department. Where the authority is quick to respond, thinking it was a scam report or whatnot.

Unfortunately to their dismay, it was a girl who just can't believe she got threatened by a random stranger online and needed her hands covered with blood to get that seller out of this world completely!

Ok, now that is an exaggeration.

Turns out you need to buy more than a certain amount to be considered a legit report. Moreover, the authority mentioned the seller did refund to me so it was a no-brainer to close the case as it didn't constitute as a formal complaint.

Seriously, I admire my perseverance to win back my own dignity in that case. But, on a serious serious note, I can't believe my EQ is darn low in that moment (still is now) and no matter how hard I tried, things just can't work the way I wanted.

Which says a lot about everyone's experiences as well.

As the saying goes:

"You can have anything you want in life, but you just can't have everything you want."

Now, I'm going back to be a "low cheap buyer" (quoted from another rude conversation I had with another seller) and living my normal, EQ-average-low life.