Serenity in ANTI-Social

INTROVERT, THIS IS YOUR TIME!

Okay, I mean you guys would tend to/prefer being alone right. Now, don’t come close to me. 1 meter away and talk using phone, please.

Staying at home doesn’t mean that your productivity can get low. This is no excuse. So, here I am, being isolated in my dormitory at my university, telling you how to make good use of the time or ‘waste’ time. ;D

1. Drink more water -okay this is common sense, but don’t let me know your lazy butt still sticking on the couch/bed, not hydrating enough ah! Remember need to be SUI SUI de -alert, Jenn’s fan here.

2. Exercise -I din say you need to go do hardcore gym, work those Abs, or that twerking butt. Just 10 minutes everyday for some sweating exercise enough. Even helping out your family in kitchen counts -if your kitchen is 1000 sq feet la.

3. Meditate/Alone time -go see back your goal, resolution 2020, unfinished task. GO COMPLETE IT.

4. Read book

5. Talk to your loved ones (like me 😉)

6. Nothing…

That’s all. I know. I also want to be anti-social. Not even want to write anymore, need to go meditate. Samadhi.

Be well. Stay safe. And stay at home.

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