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Your Life Your Decison


Let´s say person A has a wealthy, rich family and lives a luxurious life since young. When he hits 22 years old, he is already the CEO of the company his family inherited to him.

Meanwhile, person B lives a middle-range family, lives off by his parents´ hard work salary. When he hits 22 years old, he needs to juggle few jobs in order to sustain his living and his family´s too.

Would you say that Person A is more successful than person B?

Person B is less luckier than person A?

Person A can enjoy his life whereas person B can’t?

          That’s your own perception. Your stereotype was haunting your mindset and point of view towards the people that may be living hardship of the life without your knowledge.

Who says Person A never work hard from behind to upgrade his family’s business?

Who says Person A doesn’t have stress and burden so that people won’t judge him like we all do?

Who says Person B always save his money and don’t spend money on some shit?

Who says Person B doesn’t like his job that pay him less but give him the satisfaction and joy people don’t get easily?

       Your life is based on your own fcuking decision. Don’t let the outside world to help you determine what’s “right”, what’s “wrong”, because no one can but only you.

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