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A Responsible Human


What differentiates us with animals? This is a rather common question that a 10-year-old kid is capable of answering too. Human being has reason, analytical thinking and is rational living thing.

Being a responsible and ACCOUNTABLE individual is the least You and I can do. Take ownership that you relatively belong to and ought to do as a living creature on this earth.

Admit your fault.
Close off your egoism.
Count on your experience and skill.
Own up your mistakes.
Understand your SWOT.
Nip your bad SHIT in the bud.
Take your credit and reward, if you deserve it.
Apologize for your wrongdoings.
Be watchful of your mean mouth.
Let your creativity and innovation flow
Express yourself in the most humble yet daring way.


          The worst thing in life is not that you do not admit something is your mistakes, but you have no idea that something is actually your fault. Being ignorant and un-knowledgeable is the worst of all. So, listen, think it through, make your decision and take the accountability.

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